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Why Every Couple Could Use a Little Therapy (Yes, Even the Happy Ones)

Let’s face it: relationships are hard. You start with sparks, shared playlists, and synchronized coffee orders—and somehow end up arguing about how the dishwasher should be loaded. (Forks up? Forks down? Does it matter? Apparently, yes.)


If you’ve ever watched the show Couples Therapy (the Showtime documentary series, not to be confused with every third romantic comedy ever made), you know that even the most loving couples hit rough patches.


What’s fascinating—and kind of comforting—is watching real people sit down with a professional to unpack years of miscommunication, resentment, and emotional static. And somehow, miraculously, they come out the other side… lighter.


The magic ingredient? Therapy. Or more specifically, relationship therapy.


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Why Couples Therapy Isn’t Just for "Broken" Relationships


Let’s kill the stigma right off the bat: you don’t need to be on the brink of breaking up to go to couples therapy. In fact, waiting until your emotional house is on fire is like calling a plumber only after your bathroom has become a swimming pool.


Here are a few great reasons to go before you're Googling “how to divide furniture after a breakup”:


1. You Keep Having the Same Fight on Loop

You know that argument that starts about socks on the floor but somehow ends in a tearful rehash of that time someone forgot your birthday in 2018? Yeah. That’s not just a fight—it’s a pattern. Therapists are like relationship detectives. They don’t just help you stop the fight; they help you figure out why it keeps happening.

Just ask Dr. Orna Guralnik, the therapist on Couples Therapy. With her calm demeanor and superhuman ability to ask exactly the right question at exactly the wrong moment (i.e., the one where you burst into tears), she shows us that beneath every squabble is a deeper story worth hearing.


2. You Love Each Other… But Something’s Off

Sometimes things aren’t dramatically bad—but they’re not great either. Maybe the spark has dimmed. Maybe your partner talks more to the dog than to you. Maybe you’ve become roommates who share WiFi.

Therapy can help you reconnect emotionally, intellectually, and (yes) physically. It gives you a space to remember what you loved about each other in the first place—and how to find your way back to that connection.


3. You Need a Referee (Who’s Also a Licensed Professional)

Some issues are too big for dinner-table negotiations: parenting disagreements, trust issues, navigating non-monogamy, or recovering from betrayal. A therapist provides a neutral ground and helps you both feel heard. They don’t take sides—they take your relationship’s side.


And let’s be honest, how many times has “just talking it out” devolved into emotional dodgeball?


4. You're Planning a Future Together

Going to therapy isn’t just about fixing problems—it's also about building skills. Communication, empathy, conflict resolution, love languages... none of this stuff comes with an instruction manual.


Think of therapy as a relationship upgrade. Like couples’ yoga for your emotional core.


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So, Should You Go?


If you’re reading this and nodding—or nervously laughing—then yeah, maybe it’s time to reach out. Therapy isn’t about admitting defeat. It’s about investing in your relationship.



Whether you're married, dating, polyamorous, queer, cohabiting, or somewhere in between “it’s complicated” and “do we count as a couple?”—you deserve a fulfilling connection.


Book the Session. Light the Spark.


The most courageous thing you can do isn’t staying silent or powering through—it’s saying, “We want better. Let’s get help.”


Just like the couples on Couples Therapy, you might cry. You might get frustrated. You might even have to say, “I didn’t know that about you.” But that’s where real intimacy begins.


So go ahead—book a consultation with a couples therapist. The dishwasher can wait.


Because sometimes the strongest relationships are the ones that ask for help.

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